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| Sex & Intimacy / 8:21 AM - Saturday September 04, 2010 |
My boyfriend has a habit of rubbing or touching his penis, how can i get him to stop?It doesn't matter what my boyfriend is doing when he has an available hand, he will rub, grab or play with his penis,sometimes to the point where he makes himself hard, it bothers me and I told him about it, and he is trying to stop. I am very sexual and would like to have sex every day, he turns me down when I initate sex. It is only when he wants to which is every 2-3 nights. I am becoming very fustrasted because i know he loves me and I love him, what do I do? - Asked by Female, 29-35 |
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Wow. Two sentences. Two completely unrelated thoughts.
- Response by llafsroh, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Boston, Science / Engineering
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1. He's just adjusting himself.
- Response by bluegenel, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, Who Cares?, Technical
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Stop worrying, he's a man he constantly adjusts himself and touches himself. It has nothing to do with you unless he's doing it to the exclusion of having sex, which he isn't. Some guys aren't the energizer bunnies when it comes to sex; but each guy is different so don't use the masses to judge one man. If you know he loves you, then you have nothing to worry about. Now if he was letting some other woman rub and touch him, then I'd get worried.
- Response by lioness21, A Player, Female, 29-35, Consulting
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A good percentage of men touch, feel, and/or adjust themselves often. Most of them, including me; However, do it in private. Why; He doesn't want sex more often, is a mystery to me. Most young men would jump at the chance to have daily sex. Was he that way in the beginning?
- Response by surhomme64, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 66 or older
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"to the point where he makes himself hard?"
- Response by singledad281, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Houston, Hospitality
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This is the first time I've heard of this. Definitely an adolescent issue for which I have no answer. I would tell him that if he wants to touch it to save it for the bedroom when you're both together. As far as him not wanting sex as much as you - MAJOR red flag. I would suggest you move on and find someone with a similar sex drive. I was married 18 years to a woman who had a lesser sex drive and because of it my sexual self-esteem was literally destroyed by her and she also, used sex as a weapon to get back at me if we were fighting. No thanks, going forward I will not settle for a woman with a lesser sex drive.
- Response by A Creative, Male, 46-55, Boston, Other Profession
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when you notice him doing it, tell him "leave it alone it'll grow" and walk away...he'll stop.
- Response by A Father Figure, Male, 66 or older, New Orleans, Transportation
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good morning i am divyansh yadav i have also rid of this habbit
- Response by dy46321, Female, 66 or older, Pushkar
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just do it for him
- Response by windyday, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Who Cares?
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