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How do you handle sneaky people
Dating / 1:23 PM - Friday August 27, 2010

How do you handle sneaky people

I do not have many details except I know someone who whose boyfriend is sneaky they live together and she is trying to figure out how to deal with him

- Asked by A Creative, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?

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To me, sneaky is one of the worst possible things. Really, how pathetic.

I'd deal with him by dumping him.

- Response by trawna, A Career Woman, Female, 46-55, Toronto, Consulting

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I don't. That's my whole outlook. I'm NOT going to deal with it, I'm gonna leave them and not look back. Sneaky people are that way because of some deeply set values, and there's no real "changing them" or "bringing them to their senses." They'll just try to be even sneakier to convince you they're honest-- it's a very vicious cycle, sadly.

- Response by anie01, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Teaching

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If you think THAT'S fun, just wait until they marry. The really sneaky shit starts happening on the way to, and during, the divorce.

If you can identify sneaky bastards before you marry them, be sure to get them out of your life and count yourself lucky.

- Response by naiveladyquestions, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Other Profession

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My mother is like that. Dad divorced her and that was that.

- Response by An Alternative Girl, Female, 22-25

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You don't deal with "sneaky" people; you dump them.

- Response by pushkins, A Thinker, Female, 66 or older, Miami, Who Cares?

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You don't deal with sneaky people, you confront them about the matter or leave them alone. People are who they are. You can't change them, they have to make that choice

- Response by wats2775, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 56-65, Transportation

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