He always wants to talk but doesnt want to see me???
What's to be said about an ex who still wants to talk to you every single day but makes excuses not to see you ever?? I dont get it.
We've been split for a few years, have grown past everything and are good friends. ONLINE. He lives down the street from me, so there's really no excuse. We were going for coffee and beers for awhile there but now in the last 6 months, he suggests it "maybe we should do beers next week when Im off"...then that whole week he's off work goes by and he doesnt bother going through with it. Says he was busy all week but he wanted to, etc.
Obviously I dont expect to see him all the time..he has a gf that he's been with since almost right after he and I split..so Im not demanding any time of him. HE always suggests it, then backs out. HE emails me all day long, texts me, msgs me all night on MSN...he likes talking to me I know..but when it comes to hanging out..he seems to have some sort of complex about it.
Any ideas? HE bailed on me AGAIN this week (he gets a week off a month from work..so its not like he doesnt have time..especially living 5 minutes away...and her away at school.) Should I say something?? Tell Im bored of waiting on a friend who hasnt had time in 6 MONTHS to grab a coffee or beer? I know he knows Im upset..but I feel like telling him whats the point of this online friend shit if he cant be bothered to ever get together...
- Asked by sunnyd
, An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35, Toronto, Technical