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The Right Way to Ride Him?
Sex & Intimacy / 8:48 PM - Monday July 05, 2010

The Right Way to Ride Him?

What is the right or the best way to ride the DICK?

- Asked by Female, 36-45

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there's 3 main trains of thought on that:

1) doggy style. yes, doggy style. you have complete control to thrust back onto his dick as you ride him from below. advantages: deeper penetration, and comfortable

2) girl on top, facing him. you have total control of depth of insertion and speed and pace. however, some guys can't get off in this position unless the girl has a lot of muscle control. advantages: he's very comfortable, but it takes skill and work on the lady's part

3) girl on top, facing away. feels like doggy style again with the same advantages/disadvances of the previous position.

- Response by pizzatroll, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Science / Engineering

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Climb on top.

Hold his hands, and put your feet FLAT on the bed, so your knees are up.

Use his hands to steady yourself. This is the best way.

If you are a novice, have him sit with his back against the headboard, legs stretched out. Straddle him so that your feet are again, flat on the mattress and your knees are up around his armpits. You can hold onto his shoulders or the headboard for leverage. This is great if you don't have strong leg muscles.

These ways are easier than the traditional straddle with your legs on the bed.

- Response by myndseye711, A Cool Mom, Female, 29-35, Managerial

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Community Rating: Community Star

Here are your options...

The woman on top sex position described - basic woman on top

The man lies on his back while his female partner straddles him. His movement is limited by her weight, and she can control the depth of thrusting. Both partners can stroke her breasts, clitoris, back and buttocks, and she can caress his chest, arms and testicles. The woman can move her hips in either a thrusting or a rocking motion, and she may control the degree of stimulation she offers the man by limiting the extent to which she moves up and down on his penis shaft. All in all, a very exciting position, with a lot of possibilities.

The woman lies on top

The physical feelings here can be intense. The intensity will depend chiefly on how close the woman keeps her legs together. If she lies with her legs inside the man's and keeps them very close together, his penis will be squeezed in a way that is hard to achieve in any other sexual position, and though he is likely to ejaculate quickly, the feelings will be stronger for the woman as well. For a woman who likes the sense of penetration and the feeling of her man's penis inside her, this is a powerful experience.

Other variations on woman on top sex positions

Variations on the woman on top positions are all about the angle of the penis in the vagina, and the fact that the woman gets different sensations when the man penetrates her from different angles. This can be exciting for the man as well, of course, because different positions stimulate different parts of his penis and also put different degrees of pressure on it. A couple can have a great deal of fun and be very playful in experimenting with these different sexual positions.

The woman on top faces away from the man

When the woman sits on top of her man and then leans forward as far as is comfortable, they are both likely to get intense vaginal and penile stimulation. This is not something that all men will find comfortable, especially a man whose erection is hard and upright and normally stands against his stomach, for his penis may be bent uncomfortably. Even so, sex in this position can be very stimulating one for the woman, because it allows her to ride his penis while her G-spot is stimulated. This is shown in the third picture below.


- Response by bluegenel, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, Who Cares?, Technical

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I agree with damnpoor--questions like this make me think the person who asked them aren't in a relationship at all.

I feel the same way about people who give overly detailed instructions--some of them think about what they can't have so frequently that they come up with what are in effect these voyeurist monologues.

If you have to refer to your s/o with this degree of dehumanizing violence (I mean, "dick" sounds like someone who isn't even in the room), you probably don't have a s/o; you most likely just have some sort of FB. For me that's just ugh. :P

- Response by electragold21, A Thinker, Female, 29-35, New York, Teaching

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Whatever way makes you happy...he'll be happy regardless. ;)

- Response by mamom04, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 56-65, Phoenix

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- Response by piscesrising, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Boston, Internet / New Media

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Babe,there are many ways n positions that u may workout but remember always to use it with responsibility n respectfully n make sure u enjoy maximum satisfaction while in session,luv ya,bye.

- Response by podian, A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, Singapore, Technical

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myndseye711 is wise beyond her years......listen to her....

- Response by themamu, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, Who Cares?

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Most of the answers are good..just be careful when bouncing too hard. Sometimes it comes out and if you are bouncing on it hard, you can actually injure and even break a dick.

Some women ride as though it's indestructible. I've had a few ride like that and thank God that mine is thick and gets very hard because it did hurt when it came out and went in at an angle and bent my friend.. had to take a few minutes for the pain to die down after that so make sure that your aligned well if you really start to ride hard or make sure that you don't come out all the way as you get going.

- Response by richsifu, A Rebel, Male, 46-55, Science / Engineering

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http://www. Sara-Jay-At-Her-Best/vi deo143625/

take out the spaces.... this is how you ride dick.

- Response by drallig9399, A Hip Hop Guy, Male, 29-35, Dallas, Military

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360 degree turn/reverse Cow-Girl..In this way, your man gets to view the whole naked you on top of him and that's a double turn on for him ;)

But before that, I d encourage you to openly talk to him about what he position he really wants to try out :).


- Response by sanaf87, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 26-28, Toronto

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You have to be agile, and willing to work at it. It's like riding a horse. There's some up and down and some fore and aft. Ever ridden a mechanical bull at a country western bar? Similar to that.

- Response by betterbird, A Creative, Male, 46-55, San Francisco, Administrative

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up and down like u are riding a horse

- Response by bigcurt, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Pittsburgh, Self-Employed

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make sure you are wet or lubed up good,pick a hole and get ride that big fat dick girl..wanna share it?? ;P

- Response by eagerbeaver, An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?

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If you have to ask you're trying too hard.

- Response by damnpoor, A Couch Potato, Male, 29-35, Other Profession

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