|Sex & Intimacy / 4:22 AM - Tuesday June 15, 2010|
How can I get my boyfriend to be passionate and spontaneous with sex instead of a normal routine?
I've been with my boyfriend for going on 2 years now and we have been living together for about 9 months. We have always had a very healthy and pleasurable sex life. The sex is amazing the way it is but at the same time I need more. I need to come home from work or walk into the room and him grab me and rip my clothes off like he just can't control himself. We have never had sex spontaneously it's like it is always planned. Including positions that we start and end with. I've tried numerous times to change it up but he always finds a way to shut me down. I've even tried to turn him on at times but if it's not late at night he isn't interested, or he will look at me and say we'll see, like he has to think about it or like I'm a child and if I behave then I'll get my surprise. I've tried everything I can think of but nothing seems to work. I can't help but think at times is it me? I know he loves me and I love him but I honestly feel like when we have sex he is only doing it b/c he feels it's his job or to keep me from getting sexually frustrated and being one of those women that nag all the time. If you have any advice please help me out
- Asked by brittanyheart43, An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35, Medical / Dental
Have you tried doing a slow strip tease, or something like a pole dance? You could come and start ripping his clothes. It would work for me..