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Sex & Intimacy / 8:54 PM - Sunday June 13, 2010

Blowjob or Handjob Ladies.

Ladies which do you prefer more, giving blowjobs or giving handjobs? I'm curious because all the woman I've been with automatically have given me blowjobs without me asking. I mean I like them, they feel good, but I've never come from one. These woman stay down there a long time to. I think it's great that I've never had to ask, but I really prefer handjobs from them. I have to beg to get that. When they do the handjob they just dabble in it. They don't like to do it that long. I'd think it would be the reverse.

Update: June 14, 2010.
I guess I wasn't very clear in the original question. I have asked the women to give me a handjob, but they either won't do it or don't do it for that long. Again, I'm not going to complain about getting a blowjob, but I've never cum from having one despite how good they feel and quite a few women have tried. Years ago one woman did give me a handjob to completion. I was like putty in her hands. I guess I'm just surprised because most women complain about a guy cumming in their mouth so I thought they'd go for a handjob in a minute. That's what I get for thinking, lol. Anyway, it's not a deal breaker and I just wanted to see how other think. Thanks for all who replied.

- Asked by rjack90, A Career Man, Male, 36-45, Science / Engineering

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I'd rather give a handjob,I've just always enjoyed the way it feels in my hands,plus the visual. My experiences tell me guys enjoy getting them more than they let on too.

- Response by gvmeurhwc, An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35

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You can do a handjob yourself....but you can't suck ur own dick....So therefore, women would rather do the blowjob so they give thier man something he can't do my himself...:)

- Response by semperfi73, A Career Woman, Female, 36-45, Cincinnati, Executive

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I do both...he doesn't complain.
;)


- Response by pinknblu, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?

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I do both at the same time. :)

But as far as just a plain old hj, never really do that. #1 I think because he can do that himself so I guess it doesn't seem as big of a deal. (although, I can also finger myself, but would much prefer my guy to do it. So I totally get your point there.)

But mostly because I've never really been shown/told how to do it, so I'm self conscious about it. Where as bjs, I know I'm good because I've never not had a guy cum. Even the ones who told me they never have, and probably wouldnt. They all did.

So maybe if you are with a girl take her hand and rub your cock with it, then start giving yourself a hj while she's playing with you a little, and let her watch for a big before she decides to take over. :)

- Response by A Life of the Party, Female, 26-28

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I would think they would rather give you a handjob which to me is easier than a bj. I agree with you, some women don't like giving bjs so a handjob is easier to me.

- Response by hulagirl55, A Sportif, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?

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IO generally agree the gals seem to "dabble" at their cock-sucking... I've ot gotten off to a blow job but for ONE TIME
and she was a real talented gal... It took her some doing!

but, she put in the effort and gave it the ol' college try

- Response by fehkarfight, A Couch Potato, Male, 56-65, Who Cares?

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I'll bet none of them are mind readers! Tell them what you want! If you don't ask, you don't receive! ;)

- Response by lacey07, A Life of the Party, Female, Who Cares?, Other Profession

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I know what you mean...
There are women who are actually afraid to have you cum in their mouth, yet they will attempt a bj. When they do, they do it as if they are scared it will explode any minute! Don't bother! A handjob will do!

- Response by hrdmn10, A Father Figure, Male, 56-65, Other Profession

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Honestly, I have never given, offered or even been asked for a 'hand job'... A BJ, yes. Deep throating, yes. Hand? No.

- Response by A Career Woman, Female, Who Cares?, Guadalajara, Self-Employed

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i have carpal tunnel so hand jobs are a pain literally, but i adore giving blow jobs.

- Response by galdeen, A Creative, Female, 36-45, Administrative

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most females are just suckers I guess

- Response by bigcurt, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Pittsburgh, Self-Employed

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I have given handjobs and its ok..but I do enjoy giving a blowjob way more..like why do I want it in my hand when it can be in my mouth?

- Response by eagerbeaver, An Alternative Girl, Female, 26-28, Who Cares?

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The answer may be that oral is more intimate for the giver and the receiver. Given a choice I would rather please a woman with my tongue than my fingers

- Response by gilpill, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Chicago, Internet / New Media

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Ha ha ha

that's like asking me "do you want to be shot, burned or hit?"

- Response by scooper, A Sportif, Female, 46-55, Dallas, Who Cares?

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