|Dating / 3:01 PM - Friday June 11, 2010|
Why do so many women go after bad boys and overlook the nice guys
Why do I keep reading horror stories about convicts in prison and on parole for violent crimes with women throwing themselves at their feet? I'm always hearing females say they want men who treats them well, yet everywhere I look I see the exact opposite. They go after guys that beat them up and bring them down. I'm starting to believe the old adage "Nice guys finish last?" I'm a clean-cut Mama's boy with no baggage, yet I haven't been in a serious relationship for six years now. Do these women honestly think the bad boy will come rescue them from despair before they ride into the sunset in his muscle care with the convertible top down? Has it ever occurred to any of them how selfish he is; that he's probably telling other women the same thing; or that 99-percent of time he's a coward? I used to assume any female with enough brain cells to drive a car, operate a cellphone, tie her shoelaces, hold a fork to her mouth, and brush her teeth would know this, but now I'm not so sure. Often, I end up attracting the damaged goods who learned the hard way "bad boy" isn't an oxymoron. Either that, or they have kids and they're looking for a meal ticket. The rest just split after I disclose I have Asperger's Syndrome. Just because I don't drive a Harley, have enough tattoos to form a mural, or enough body piercings to activate the metal detector doesn't mean I don't know how to defend myself or provide for someone. Nevertheless, I'm not that desperate for a relationship, either. Can somebody explain to me all this?
- Asked by daugenstine, A Creative, Male, 29-35, Political / Government
much more women today seem to be attracted to the LOSER type of guys, why is that? that shows you how STUPID women can be going after the guys that are so ABUSIVE to them, and treat them ROTTEN. but then again, GARBAGE ATTRACTS GARBAGE.
i bought my ex No more mr Nice Guy.