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Going on 3 years -no -sex yes im still here
Sex & Intimacy / 12:20 AM - Wednesday May 12, 2010

going on 3 years -no -sex yes im still here

do you think its cheating when a husband whacks off to porn and never touches his wife ?

- Asked by abreedapart, Female, 56-65

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I don't know about cheating ,but it is pretty sad for the both of you.
Sex is a very important part of living
a very important part of a relationship
and good for your health.

What gives.
Do you initiate?
Dose he?
Do you two talk?

no sex , no relationship , no talking that would be a sad existence.

- Response by morningdust, A Creative, Female, 56-65, Self-Employed

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No, it's not cheating but it's pretty disrespectful. Why would a woman stay with a man like that?

- Response by twocents47, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?

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It's not cheating... That's just, sad...

- Response by fehkarfight, A Couch Potato, Male, 56-65, Who Cares?

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Have you tried to talking to him about this? Why are you still there if he isn't giving you anything.

- Response by hulagirl55, A Sportif, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?

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No, not cheating in the strictest sense. But it's a huge slap in the face, that you keep standing there taking. What's wrong with you? Are you worth so little?

- Response by phillisn, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Self-Employed

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No. Its not cheating at all... It is a sad state for a married couple to be in tho. What about some counseling?

- Response by singledad281, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Houston, Hospitality

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It's not cheating, it's just disinterest. This relationship needs some new spark.

- Response by betterbird, A Creative, Male, 46-55, San Francisco, Administrative

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no but u need to be doing the same

- Response by bigcurt, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Pittsburgh, Self-Employed

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- Response by mrsmm, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?

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No, its not cheating, but it is abandonment of a sort. I bet if you looked at pictures of nude men and masturbated, and let your husband know about it, he'd get mad.

- Response by hearmenow, A Guy Critical, Male, 66 or older, Other Profession

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HOLY SHIT!!!I am going on 2 mos and I am about to go crazy!!!Everything I see or hear becomes sexual and sometimes what I can smell,like a man walking by that is wearing a good colonge...How often does he do it?Have you guys tried going away on vacation just the two of you??

- Response by brown5, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Financial / Banking

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rediculous work schedle one time and after three weeks my wife "found it esewhere" how the hell did you go 3 years??

- Response by A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 36-45, Self-Employed

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