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What kind of woman does a "player" settle down with long term?
Dating / 2:15 PM - Sunday April 25, 2010

What kind of woman does a "player" settle down with long term?

- Asked by warriormars, A Thinker, Female, 29-35

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A player usually settles down with the type of woman he would never have given the time of day before.

When players grow up, they finally start looking at women from a different perspective.

- Response by mrscleaver16, A Married Girl, Female, 66 or older

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One that will put up with him continuing to "play" even after he says he's committed to her. That is, if he ever settles down.

- Response by pudgeybunny, A Hippie Chick, Female, 26-28, Artist / Musician / Writer

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Player's don't settle down. That's what defines a player.

- Response by cosmicdog0, A Guy Critical, Male, 56-65, Denver, Science / Engineering

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They Don't settle down.

- Response by roaminginsomniac, An Alternative Girl, Female, 46-55, Law Enforcement

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A Doormat.

- Response by 1junebug, A Cool Mom, Female, 36-45

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Someone who reminds him of his mommy

- Response by englishrose4945, A Life of the Party, Female, 66 or older, Miami, Alternative Medicine

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A "player" rarely settles down and when/if he/she does, the person they choose are usually someone they can 'manipulate', can treat badly, someone with their own issues and someone who will continue to try to 'change' them with no luck...since a 'player' needs someone to 'play' with, they usually find those they can control or manipulate because the player knows that having someone like that in their life is easier than trying to play someone who is confident, independent and aware of what's going on...:)

- Response by fastball, A Cool Mom, Female, 36-45, Edmonton, Self-Employed

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If they are truely a player they don't settle down without something on the side.

- Response by frenchkiss49, A Thinker, Female, 66 or older, Tampa, Who Cares?

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someone like his mom

- Response by ruffian, A Sportif, Female, 36-45

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Probably the dumb kind of girl who will have no clue when he is cheating.

- Response by lmarks, A Life of the Party, Male, 29-35, Los Angeles, Who Cares?

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any men who is charming and seuxally attractive to women who chase after him or fall for himj too soon will become bored very quickly and start treating the women with contempt - they will get called a 'player' but it's really the easy insecure women who make them this way.

a player will only fall in love with a woman who is unattainable, who has self-respect and a lot of confidence and won't settle for behaviour like that

a player will only 'settle' in his mind for as soon as he's got the girl he'll move on to someone else

- Response by rubyrednotdead, A Creative, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?

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Players continue to philander after marriage for the most part and they pick partners that they can delude into thinking they aren't playing or they pick women who for the most part turn a blind eye to it. And on occasion they pick women who for all basic purposes BUY their companionship and legal commitment although they can't buy the fidelity they hope to.

- Response by joybird, A Creative, Female, Who Cares?, Therapist

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