|Dating, Friendship / 8:11 AM - Sunday April 18, 2010|
why wont my boyfriend share his friend with me?
I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and i feel that we have a great relationship, we are best friends as well as being girlfriend and boyfriend, and we spend most of our spare time together and share many of the same friends...and i usually tell him everything...except i dont know how to bring up my current question with him. you see he has this friend, his male best friend, which he has had for 9 years now. and he lives just down the road from my boyfriend. its obvious this friendship is important to him and he enjoys spending time with his mate but in all the time ive been with him he has never even introduced me to his friend. i thought when you were with a girlfriend you could spend time with both her and your mate at the same time and that it didnt have to be an exclusive thing? but it seems that when my boyfriend is with his mate it is "girlfriend free zone" and that when he is with me he doesnt want to spend time with his mate. i wouldnt mind getting to know his friend and i thought it would be a great way for him to spend more time with him (because we usually spend most of our weekend together and i thought we could all just hang out together sometimes) but i dont know how to discuss how im feeling about this with him...what should i do? is he not introducing me to his best mate because he knows he wont like me? or am i making too big a deal about this whole thing??
- Asked by Female, 22-25