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What are some signs a guy's playing hard to get? I know this isn't as common as a girl playing
Dating / 3:06 AM - Sunday April 18, 2010

What are some signs a guy's playing hard to get? I know this isn't as common as a girl playing

"that" game, but I know some guys still do. Do you think some guys try a little too hard to play it cool? Like they might really have feelings, but instead of being upfront about them and risking possible rejection, they just try to act ultra suave (unsuccessfully, usually)?

- Asked by Female, 29-35

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Avoid bullshit artists, They are playing a "I love me" game.

- Response by duggers, A Guy Critical, Male, 66 or older

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Yes. I just had a conversation with my friend about this the other night. He told me very directly that if he wants a girl he'll ignore her. Guys definitely play this game.

Of course this just complicates everything, but I feel like there are likely other signs you have to be able to pick up on.

- Response by bluebutton32, A Hippie Chick, Female, 26-28, Student

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everyone is afraid of rejection guys and girls
lota guys try the whole "game" thing
my opinion is if a guy is trying to play games with u hes not worth your time
think about it, u really want a guy who isnt even secure being himself, need to pretend to be someone hes not
not worth it...

- Response by nimsqzy, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 22-25, Miami

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