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| Married Life / 2:11 PM - Tuesday April 13, 2010 |
why do women chase married men or find out if they are married. Are there just natural homewreckers?My husband by nature..like father like son, is very flirtatous. This very young student teacher started texting all the time..I found out we argued and I kicked him out. He became angry at me he found another woman, she chased him also knowing he was married, she said she didn't know, I don't believe that, she could have found out just by asking around. - Asked by A Married Girl, Female, 56-65 |
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if so far that you know you have found your husband flirting/texting/ cheating with 2 women...its not THEM...its HIM.
- Response by galdeen, A Creative, Female, 36-45, Administrative
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Sounds like you're blaming the wrong person.
- Response by catscratch, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Executive
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Arg I hate this kind of thing! How can women do that to a fellow woman? How would they like it in reverse? From talking to some "other women" they tend to justify it by saying stuff like "oh well he said they were in an open relationship" or "she is a real bitch" etc. One of my good friends has a habit of getting with married soldiers she meets at work :S Drives me nuts.
- Response by tuala, A Creative, Female, 22-25, Student
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If my husband was "flirtatious" with other women, I would be mad at him. That's not something that a married guy should be doing ... innocently or not. It either encourages other women or gives them the wrong impression -- neither are good.
- Response by mrscleaver16, A Married Girl, Female, 56-65
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Well if you kicked him out then how is this other woman suppose to know he is married seeing as he is not living with you? OK I despise the other woman just as you do, but it sounds like this new woman really didn't know! It's not her job to inquire about his status after he has already told her he's single and seeing as he's not living with you this would seem plausible.
- Response by kdtxchic30, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?
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Because they can't find their own. And they are homewreckers.
- Response by A Married Girl, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?
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We don't chase them, they chase us..
- Response by perla, A Trendsetter, Female, 29-35, Milan, Other Profession
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Some women get a sick pleasure out of knowing your man is with them and not you. These kinds of women are very insecure and have been cheated on themselves. They just get a kick out of being on the other side of the table, that's all.
- Response by bts4life20, A Trendsetter, Female, 26-28, Self-Employed
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Hello? You kicked him out!
- Response by llafsroh, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Boston, Science / Engineering
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Your husband isn't mute - he could easily have said "No thanks, I'm married." If he didn't, it's not the women's fault.
- Response by justpassingthru, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Financial / Banking
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Well quite frankly, it's not her responsibility to safeguard the sanctity of your marriage as far as I'm concerned. The relationship between two people are the business of those two people, and only those two people. If one of them wants to end that or violate the relationship, that's between the two of them and nobody else's business. That is of course, assuming that the betrayed/dumped spouse and the third party don't know each other, if they do it becomes a little different.
- Response by mrinsano, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 26-28, Financial / Banking
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It has been scientifically proven through studies that women do go after married men or men in relationships. That it has nothing to do with a change in him.
- Response by jjcabin, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Washington, DC, Technical
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So, It's no one's, but YOUR OWN DAMN FAULT.
- Response by fehkarfight, A Couch Potato, Male, 46-55, Who Cares?
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I dont think some woment intentionally chase married men....the married men just wont leave the women alone!!! Yes she could say no....but why if he seems to not care in the first place....I think those type of women need to look within themselves to find themselves....
- Response by A Cool Mom, Female, 36-45, Medical / Dental
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I think that both men and women who are married and who 'allow' a single person into their lives, are just as much at fault as the single person who cheats with the man or woman...I met a married man many years ago and he told me he was 'separated' but I still chose not to seek a further relationship because I didn't go after another woman's man and later found out, he lied and got a girl I knew pregnant...not all people who are married are straight forward and honest so I think that it's not only the person they cheat with whose at fault, but the married person as well who is at fault...:D
- Response by fastball, A Cool Mom, Female, 36-45, Edmonton, Student
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The only homewrecker I see in this particular situation is YOU. When you kicked him out he became a free agent. And exactly how do you know 'she chased him'? Because he said so???
- Response by selectivegirlsdna, An Alternative Girl, Female, 46-55, Montreal, Managerial
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So you kicked him out of the house and now you're mad he's dating another woman? Sorry honey, but separated people do date. If you don't like that, then you shouldn't have left him go to begin with.
- Response by lmarks, A Life of the Party, Male, 29-35, Los Angeles, Who Cares?
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