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Why wont this guy I like not talk to me anymore?
Dating / 12:05 PM - Wednesday April 07, 2010

Why wont this guy I like not talk to me anymore?

this guy said the he really likes me, then his ex has called and now he stopped talking to me or coming over. should i justlet him go or what? i may prego too

- Asked by Female, 36-45

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If you're pregnant ... let him know so you both can decide what's best for your child!

If you're not ... just let it go. If his ex can influence who he talks to .. not good news!!

- Response by mrscleaver16, A Married Girl, Female, 66 or older

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Gawd I hate Spring Break!

Congratulations on the exciting news. Fertility is greatly reduced in women your age.

- Response by utahmom, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Managerial

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Go back to school, meet a nice guy there... and, learn too...

- Response by fehkarfight, A Couch Potato, Male, 56-65, Who Cares?

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just let him go. He and his ex are probably involved again. If he really wanted to be with you, he would still be trying. If you really are and the child is his then you should call and leave a message or something explaining the situation. However, don't expect for him to take sudden romantic interest in you b/c you are bearing his child.

- Response by poeticlove08, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Student

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Yes, I would set him free . he obviously doesnt share the interest. dont waste your time. if u are indeed pregnant and all that, then you go after child support from the bio- good luck

- Response by dreamspinner, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Chicago

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This is a joke, right?

- Response by trawna, A Career Woman, Female, 46-55, Toronto, Consulting

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You got pregnant? Wow!
Make sure. If you miss a period, then test. If he is the dad tell him.
He's not with you, he's gone. You need to move on, because he won't come back- not even if you got pregnant.

- Response by roaminginsomniac, An Alternative Girl, Female, 46-55, Law Enforcement

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I hope your age range is wrong.

Anyway, it's obvious why he won't talk to you anymore. You were a rebound from his Ex and when she called him back, he went back and you are history.

If you are 'prego' (very telling that your age is not accurate -grown women don't say "prego") then you need to find out for sure. If you are, then you have to call him to let him know. He'll probably want you to abort and either way, probably won't come back to you. Be prepared to be a Single Mom if you are pregnant.

- Response by thottienc, A Career Woman, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?

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Well....
1) You are not pregnant - leave the guy to hell.. why do women always hang on all words guys say in a great need that they will turn around and notice us anyway ? some guys are really hard to keep ot even to talk too, because they are simply guys... never looking back at what was important for us, women... we need a lot of distance to them...

2) make a pregnancy test and if so, just talk to him about it... he should be a responsible guy..... if he wont be, also do not desperate... firstly see about the pregnancy test, later you will bother.. I hope all will be fine...

- Response by anneclover21, A Hippie Chick, Female, 26-28

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Well you should not ask if you should let him go because he has already left. As for as the pregnancy is concerned be sure and then let him know, after all he has a right to know regardless.

- Response by simsimmer, A Career Man, Male, 36-45, Who Cares?

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if he does not want to talk to you that is his fault..dump him and find someone who will be willling to talk to you.

- Response by amandasboy, A Father Figure, Male, Who Cares?, Other Profession

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You do know that you cannot make anybody be with you, don't you? He's told you that his ex-girlfriend called, and they may be back. You should let him go, but if he's the father of your baby, tell him about it. Understand that he may not there to be the "true" father, but he should pay child support.

- Response by rhunt0210, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Other Profession

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You do know that you cannot make anybody be with you, don't you? He's told you that his ex-girlfriend called, and they may be back. You should let him go, but if he's the father of your baby, tell him about it. Understand that he may not there to be the "true" father, but he should pay child support.

- Response by rhunt0210, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Other Profession

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Yes you need to let him go because its obvious that he was only talking with you until his ex came back...if you are pregnant, it might be best to make certain by getting a pregnancy test AND going to a doctor so that you can be sure before you tell him...and if he still chooses not to take responsibility, then it will be easier for you and your baby to move forward...:D

- Response by fastball, A Cool Mom, Female, 36-45, Edmonton, Self-Employed

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