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What type of "man" calls the woman in his life...
Married Life / 11:26 AM - Monday March 29, 2010

What type of "man" calls the woman in his life...

A "Swine", "Fat Ass" etc. Especially knowing this woman has been battling bulimia for nearly 20 years?

- Asked by Female, Who Cares?

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A man who truly hates himself. He has absolulely no self-worth and is trying to gain control by hitting you at your weakest spot.

- Response by italiangypsy, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Philadelphia, Other Profession

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I'm going to take a shot in the dark here and say....


...an asshole?

- Response by drumboi2, A Guy Critical, Male, 56-65

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A man who probably has very low self-esteem and feels better about himself when he demeans others.

If you have a "man" like that in your life, that's very sad. Those type of people can drag everyone down around them. I just hope whoever is being called names here realizes that they have value and deserve to be respected not called names.

- Response by mrscleaver16, A Married Girl, Female, 66 or older

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I'd call him a stupid ass. I hope he isn't someone your with romantically. Anyone who calls someone names is immature and probably has major issues.

- Response by pinkgingerbaby, A Life of the Party, Female, 36-45, Pittsburgh, Medical / Dental

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A dumbass.....

- Response by lab01, A Father Figure, Male, 46-55, St.Louis, Other Profession

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What kind of woman hears it more than once before putting him on notice, and again before cutting him out of her life?

If you have someone in your life who speaks to you like this, kick him to the curb.

And, then get counselling.

- Response by trawna, A Career Woman, Female, 46-55, Toronto, Consulting

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an egotistic, condescending, self absorbed, conceited, full of shit, heartless....bastard, whose mother wears combat boots.

- Response by englishrose4945, A Life of the Party, Female, 66 or older, Miami, Alternative Medicine

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One who doesn't respect her. You never revert to name calling if you truly respect and care for someone.

- Response by pudgeybunny, A Hippie Chick, Female, 26-28, Artist / Musician / Writer

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What type of woman accepts that from the Man in her life? Rosey

- Response by roseytalks, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Tampa, Who Cares?

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Do you need to barrow my baseball bat or do you want me to do it?

- Response by seasons4, A Sportif, Female, 46-55, Financial / Banking

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That is not a man. That is an asshole.

- Response by toby12, A Jock, Male, 36-45, Consulting

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One who set out to hurt you... Go get some help for your bulimia and consider if this man is tearing you down or building you up.... if this is a pattern of disrespect you get from this man you need to know it could be emotional abuse, which, by the way will not help your bulimia issue... either way it sounds like you could get some help with counseling....

- Response by louise1972, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Houston

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A man who does not deserve to be with a woman. Hope she realizes this.

- Response by A Creative, Female, 36-45, Dallas, Medical / Dental

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Evil.

Could be a narcissist I know, who did this to his wife, same age as me, but she's now dead, from stress for the 10-odd years she was married to him and served him, as she thought a hell lot of his above-average look. She suffered seizure at home, in her 30s and he must have taken his time to call the medics.

I was stumped then, but everyone should be forewarned.



- Response by delacreme, A Creative, Female, 36-45

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I would call him an ex!!!! Or someone you should no longer speak to!!! You deserve better girl!!!

- Response by christinfusion22, A Hippie Chick, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?

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Throw in a few "F-bombs," and you'd have a hit rap record.

- Response by thundermist04167, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Who Cares?

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One that is either trying to motivate you..the wrong way.

Doesn't give a dam about your feelings or anyone else's.

Is pissed off and his ex's or women and general and is taking it out on you.

Had been screwed over by many women in the past and has learned from experiences, examples and countless other stories that men who treat women badly, act like assholes, bad boys and abusers get far more women than nice guys and that such abuse greatly increases the chances that a woman won't leave him!

- Response by richsifu, A Rebel, Male, 46-55, Science / Engineering

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A heartless jerk battling with his own mental demons. :| A sane person would not make fun of the ill! Bulimia is a serious illness. No one in their right mind would do that. :(

- Response by authorgirl, A Married Girl, Female, 29-35, Student

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None, that I know of. There is no "MAN" that would feel the need to degrade someone like that. Obviously, a person like that would have a need to make someone feel like crap. Real men know how to motivate, inspire, or support, someone going through an illness like that. After 20 years; obviously, she has issues that aren't solely about eating behavior.

While they can't make the person change, they should have enough sense and heart to know that this rude and disrespectful tactic never works, and usually just exacerbates the situation. Which would mean that type of man was also pretty stupid. If the man doesn't like what's going on, he should leave before it gets to that point.

- Response by thelovedovefor1, A Creative, Female, 46-55, Atlanta, Who Cares?

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