Men that engage in extramarital affairs are liars living a lie. Once you let that kind of thing into your life it can be hard to get rid of.
I find it funny that people keep having a debate about whether cheating men LOVE their mistresses, wives, children, etc...
A man, or woman for that matter, who knows what love is--LOVE, not lust, not a sense of obligation to get the bills paid, not the temporary feelings that people try to pass off as love--but real love, could not cheat.
A person who knows what love is will value it above all else, because every good thing comes from love. Love inspires and motivates us to reach for the best of who we want to be, not to lie, cheat, and disregard the effect that our actions have on the people we've made commitments to.
I think that cheaters have yet to understand what true love is or what it requires. Attachment and lust have little to do with real love.
- Response by lovesglow
, Female, 36-45, Self-Employed