Because most women are control freaks, perfectionists, LOVE to complain so that they can get sympathy from others and are SO freaking insecure with such low self esteem that they have to find something wrong with everything and everyone!
Her age is part of it but the other factors are this modern culture. People got married at your ages regularly throughout history and they did not have these kinds of issues anywhere near the frequency of younger people today or people in general.
She has some serious emotional issues...which all women to do some degree but her even more than others. Diet can play a part of it too. It's know that lack of B vitamins can cause serious emotional and mental issues.
Have her try taking St. Johns Wort which is a as powerful and effective as any anti-depressant she can get..something which NO one should ever be on because most people don't know that those chemical drugs get rid of the emotions because they DESTROY the emotional centers of the brain in what's called a CHEMICAL LOBOTOMY!!
Overall women are naggers because THEY look at nagging as a type of caring. For example, if a man reminds a woman to take her vitamins, medicine, or something else, she often takes it as "caring" because you cared enough to tell her. Again, they ROMANTICIZE everything.
But men of course take this when done by women as a INSULT, because they don't just say it once or twice, but every freaking day and often many times a day. Sometimes it's about "caring" or so they think, never comprehending that it's a deep insult and one of the most aggravating things to a man because it's taken by the man as a sign that she thinks you are STUPID, Ignorant, dumb, can't remember anything or know to DO anything without HER telling you what and when to do it!
Women think that men and women are the same and that since they don't mind nagging and are more concerned about someone showing them that they care that men are the same..WRONG!! of course.
Men could care less about her showing that kind of so called caring because to us it's nothing but a HUGE aggravation. We don't walk around every day hoping someone will show us they care every 5 minutes as women do by telling us something we should or shouldn't do. Even if it's for that persons benefit.
Men KNOW this and we'll always say something to a guy on the assumption that he KNOWS it already and carefully say it like "You know that this store closes at 9 right?" or "Be careful, that wire still how power going to it".
But women don't get this at all and worse, they don't even know that there IS anything to get unless it's pointed out in great detail. This is why I'm single!
- Response by richsifu
, A Rebel, Male, 46-55, Science / Engineering