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Online dating. Guy keeps looking at my profile but hasn't contacted me. Should I contact him?
Dating / 4:50 PM - Monday February 22, 2010

Online dating. Guy keeps looking at my profile but hasn't contacted me. Should I contact him?

I have an online dating account. I've noticed this guy that keeps looking at my profile, but he hasn't sent me any form of communication. I find attractive and like what his profile has to say about him. I'mthinking he must like my profile because he keeps looking, but I don't know why he's not trying to contact me. Should I contact him and say hello?

Update: February 22, 2010.
I sent the message already. I did mention that I saw him check out my profile. I hope that wasn't a bad thing. What I wrote was, "Hi, just wanted to send you a quick hello. I saw you checked out my profile. You seem like a cool guy and I liked what I read in your profile. Take care, Susan." I saw that he read my message, but he did not reply and he logged out about an hour afterwards. Thoughts?

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 29-35

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no. he's building up courage to ask you out. you can send a wink if you like though, or look at his profile. it will show interest.

- Response by pizzatroll, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Science / Engineering

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I would. Showing a little initiative never hurt anyone.

- Response by 1man4commonsense, A Career Man, Male, 36-45, Who Cares?

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Sure -- why not -- you have the account to met guys. Do it.

- Response by utahmom, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Managerial

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Just say hey and ask a question... something like that... what site is it on?

- Response by timeforanoverhaul, A Father Figure, Male, 36-45, Managerial

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If you do I would not mention its because you saw him looking at you.

- Response by newnumbersguy32, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Financial / Banking

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If he interests you, certainly say hello. What can it hurt.

- Response by marka, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45

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Yes, say hello. He might not be a member at this time. I haven't been a member for a couple of years, but still poke around at the profiles. I don't go back, as the woman never seem to answer anyway? Maybe, most arn't really members anymore either?

- Response by weehead, A Guy Critical, Male, 56-65

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Absolutly send him a note---why wouldn't you? I do agree with the guy who suggested you not mention that you've noticed he's creepin on your profile...

Send him a note- and then drop it until he responds- don't open his profile over and over agin.


- Response by A Hippie Chick, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?

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sounds like a guy who knows you work at the local store, ect. and just happens to shop when you are working and maybe he shops 3-4 times a week. maybe he is hoping you will notice him. (and you did) don't know anything about the online dating though. (before my time) I would guess though that someone might browse through a whole bunch of profiles before deciding to contact someone. and maybe he is just window shopping and not really wanting to meet someone. good luck

- Response by 03batman, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 56-65, Medical / Dental

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