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Valentine's Day Date
Dating / 12:34 PM - Saturday February 13, 2010

Valentine's Day Date

My boyfriend decided at the last minute to go home, which is three hours away for Valentine's Day. I assumed we were going to do something together, so I made sure I would have the day free from other plans, and am all caught up on my work for classes. So now I have no plans, everyone else seems to and I don't want to be alone. Would it really be cheating if I went out with someone else? If he really wanted to be with me he would, the only reason he went home is to see his family. I don't plan on sleeping with someone else. Am I just a horrible person for even thinking of this?

- Asked by Female, 22-25

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He's not your man.

Feel free to do what you like.

No man is away from his woman on Valentine's Day.

- Response by llafsroh, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Boston, Science / Engineering

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you can go with him, and then go out once you are there. would that be so horrible?

- Response by pizzatroll, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Science / Engineering

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Yes.

- Response by thundermist04167, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Who Cares?

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Do something for yourself, and with your other girlfriends, but leave out other guys.
Sometimes, it's as tough for a man to balance the guilt his family throws on him.
I had to forego a chance to take a weekend cross-country skiing with my sweetheart, because it was my dad's birthday, and we had a big get-together planned for him.
I never did go skiing with her.

- Response by chesterdad, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 56-65, San Francisco

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If you got out with another guy, break up with the boyfriend first. No need in being a cheater.

- Response by roaminginsomniac, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 36-45, Law Enforcement

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