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| Dating / 2:09 PM - Wednesday February 10, 2010 |
Men: do you care if your girlfriend refers you as your fiance?Would you not care if you two know you are going to get married down the line but can't at the moment due to location and/or lack of money (for wedding, ring, etc)? - Asked by ellekassia26, A Creative, Female, 29-35, Home Maker |
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The only reason a man would be upset about this is if he wants you to think there is a future between the two of you so he can get some. Because if he is not willing to let people know about a future marriage then he is not really all in.
- Response by dancind123, A Father Figure, Male, 36-45, San Diego, Who Cares?
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Shit like that has ended relationships with me. One girl went around saying that and it got back to my family and it upset them that I ddin't tell them. This to me is ani=other stunt women pull to force men into marriage. If you tell enough people, the guy will look like an ass if he ever backs out. You are pretty much forcing him to marry you by pulling something like this. So that was why I dumped her.
- Response by juandontbeg, A Career Man, Male, 36-45, Charlotte, Self-Employed
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I don't think that's a good idea. My ex-boyfriend's mother once referred to ME as her son's WIFE in public. I thought that was disturbing. People don't like when you call them something they are not. But why don't you just ask your guy what HE thinks. Maybe he would love for you to call him your fiance, especially if you have talked about marriage before. But I would ask him what he thinks first.
- Response by silver75, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Stockholm, Other Profession
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Unless he has popped the question, refer to him as your man, boyfriend and or lover, but to say fiance is a lie.
- Response by misssparkle, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Atlanta, Administrative
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If I didn't ask her yet it would bother me.
- Response by newnumbersguy32, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Financial / Banking
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It's kind of stupid and desperate for a girl to run away declaring her boyfriend is her fiance when he isn't.
- Response by An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Los Angeles, Financial / Banking
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Tie a string around your finger, go to Courthouse and get married. When you can afford it later, get the ring, then save up some more and have the Wedding and Reception.
- Response by thottienc, A Career Woman, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?
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As long as there is an understanding I see no problem.
- Response by bookman, A Guy Critical, Male, 46-55, Seattle, Hospitality
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That all depends on your 'situation'. If you have had that talk, and you are both on that same page, and have that agreement, then there shouldn't be a problem. Why don't you just make it easy on yourself, and ask him if it would bother him if you refeered to him as your fiance?
- Response by strick62, A Guy Critical, Male, 26-28, Managerial
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If you're engaged to the guy that just makes you sound desperate.
- Response by lmarks, A Life of the Party, Male, 29-35, Los Angeles, Who Cares?
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If there has not been an accepted proposal, you're not engaged. Thus, he is not your fiancé. Doesn't matter if you've discussed getting married eventually, you're still just together.
- Response by lxsweetheart, A Hippie Chick, Female, 22-25, Student
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I dont think its right until u are both engaged. Its NOT the truth right now is it.
- Response by berri, A Career Woman, Female, 46-55, New South Wales, Who Cares?
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I would be upset about it if I didn't ask her to marry me. If I did then she would be fine with referring to me as such.
- Response by richsifu, A Rebel, Male, 36-45, Science / Engineering
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