|Dating / 2:49 AM - Tuesday February 02, 2010|
He broke up with me and wants to be friends. Should I?
I was with this guy for a little over 6 months. And now, he tells me he doesn't have feelings for me anymore possibly because he started talkin to this girl of his past who is now engaged to someone else and suddenly decided to get in touch with him. During this time, he went all sad and realized he doesn't feel for me anymore and so broke up with me. He says he doesn't want to lose me and wants to be friends. I don't want to be his friend but I can't stop myself from talking to him even after the breakup. We would talk every night before sleeping for hours when we were together and it is still happening now, although we are not together. And during these phone calls, he remembers our past times spent and tells me how he will miss me, how he does miss me, and how he misses me being with him in bed and with him. He says he can't get back with me although I have never even asked him to get back, he says it himself. He is a very egoistic and moody guy. At times, he can be so cruel and harsh and when he realizes it, he comes and tries to make it better. He claims that he cannot see me sad or mad at him and that he cares for me alot. So what is the deal with his feelings, how did he lose them, did he ever have them in the first place? I have never felt so helpless, I can't even help myself. I know the right thing to do is to break off all contact with him but I am just not able to do that. We both say we will not talk to eachother for a while and we talk the next day. I am just so confused. I love him alot and I can't bare all this. I did everything that he wanted and I inflated his ego enough. I don't know what to do. Please help! :(
- Asked by somestep88, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Toronto, Student