|Sex & Intimacy / 6:54 AM - Wednesday December 23, 2009|
Does he want to get me pregnant?
Well first off I'm 26 and my boyfriend is 27. I'm currently on birth control (Nuvaring) We've been seeing eachother exclusively for the past 6 months. During sex last week, he said, "How about we make this more exciting, and you take that ring out?" I said, "Why can you feel it, is it bothering you?" He said, " No, just because." I told him I don't think it's a good idea. So I'm curious what are his intentions here? Is he trying to knock me up on purpose? He already has 1 kid who is 3, with another woman obviously. And I know clearly well he wants more. But I really don't think him or I is in any position to have a child finanically at the moment. I really do love him and care about him deeply, I'm just not ready for something along those lines quite yet. So do you think he's just talking shit out of pure stupidity and passion, or he actually wants to have another child with me? He's also legally married to this lady, who he has not been with in 2 years. She lives half way across the country from him and only goes there to visit his daughter every few months. He can't afford a divorce. The whole legally married thing, sorta bothers me even though I know it's just paper and they have no sexual relations.
- Asked by Female, 29-35
This guy is bad news. He needs to get a divorce. He needs to be responsible about birth control. Who makes major life-changing decisions like that in the heat of the moment without any prior discussion? That's insanely immature.