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Why are guys so insecure?
Dating / 11:36 AM - Monday December 14, 2009

why are guys so insecure?


- Asked by shunda123, A Player, Female, 26-28

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Mom..would not let them breast feed at 21...i really dont know why..but so many are...i say.."get a life"...to most...not just men but women too...grow up...be responsible.

- Response by hwyrider, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Retired

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There are two things women need to understand about men and their levels of security and confidence in themselves. The first (and many women know or suspect this) is that men are inherently less grounded than women. Biologically and psychologically they are more vulnerable than women. Secondly, there are significant changes going on in society today that add to men's basic insecurity.

Men have always been afraid that women could get along without them. Males are psychologically and biologically more vulnerable than females and hence more insecure.


- Response by sugarlump, An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35, Artist / Musician / Writer

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Why are girls so insecure? We see girl. We "like" girl. We approach, wondering "Does girl like me?" It shows. Girl goes "Why are guys so insecure?" The same thing would happen to you, if all approaching and making first moves was up to you. It's just a human thing. Give us a break. There are worse faults a guy can have than not being a heavily armored heat-seeking missile. If you don't believe that, you're on your way to finding out exactly what they are.

- Response by unluckyloveatfirstsighter, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Artist / Musician / Writer

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They choose women who treat them horribly and make them feel guilty for having smarts or a life outside of them.

- Response by iowaczechartist, A Thinker, Female, 36-45

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I don't know why, but my boyfriend can be real insecure sometimes. He always asks me a million questions about where I'm going and who I'm going out with, he even gets jealous if a guy compliments me!

- Response by A Thinker, Female, 22-25

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Why are shemales so insecure?

- Response by evilella, A Thinker, Female, 29-35, Atlanta, Self-Employed

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