|Dating / 9:02 PM - Tuesday November 24, 2009|
I feel like I can't be myself around my long term partner...
I am sick of feeling like I have to be happy all the time. Whenever I am upset, "cranky" or angry, my boyfriend of 5 yrs doesn't want to be around me.
- Asked by A Hip Hop Girl, Female, 29-35, New York
i can understand where is coming from because my guy is like that. and i hate being around him when he is like that. he doesnt want to open up to me. so that makes it annoying to be around. if your a positive happy person the majority of the time. its kinda of like your energy is negative and you dont want any part of it. that doesnt mean he doesnt except you. you both have to be more considerate. you have to realize relationships are hard. and just because you had a bad day you cant bring that to him. its not his fault. he should be the one who makes you smile even when your mad. and he should learn to try to make you smile get my drift. so if that doesnt happen you both are unhappy, if you cant compromise move on. becaure niether 1 of you r right for each other. the only reason you all have been together so long is because of comfort. if the pro's out weight the con's stay if not leave. hope i helped good luck