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Ladies, you break up with your man and cut off communication (after a 5 month relationship)
Dating / 6:58 AM - Saturday November 21, 2009

Ladies, you break up with your man and cut off communication (after a 5 month relationship)

Do you contact him ever again (and seemingly, you really liked him) and how long after you cut off communication do you contact him?

- Asked by Male, 29-35

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It totally depends on the depth of the relationship..and the reson for the break up... If there are no terrible issues..and merely logistics..I think re communication would be quire possible... However if there are really bad trust issues,unfaithfulness and or other Biggies... I'd say never!

- Response by lady4u, A Married Girl, Female, 56-65, Cincinnati, Who Cares?

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I give it about three months, then send a friendly email, if he doesn't respond...he's off my email, my phone, and any messenger contact list.

- Response by tortureu2, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Other Profession

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If I broke off communication I would not contact him again. If I were you I would not put my life on hold...go on with your life.

- Response by destinyseeker, A Career Woman, Female, 36-45, Teaching

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It depends on why you broke up -- his wish or mine or both. After five months, assuming there's no longer a strong feeling of hurt or betrayal, yes, I would contact him again. We shared five months together and must have friends, interests in common. But I would not want him to think that I want to start up a relationship again; I would want him to see my communication as "just a friend."



- Response by A Hippie Chick, Female, 56-65

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Cmon, give a little respect yourself. Even though I liked him so so so much, precisely, I don´t ever contact him. Let the baygone be bygone. That´s a good way to heal the cut. If you try to keep in touch, you´ll never gonna let it go and gonna suffer a lot more and for a longer time. In other words stop wasting your precious time thinking about the past, go forwards, look for other horizons.

- Response by wizzerweasel, A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45

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I never do.When I am done I am done.No use stirring up feelings that will never come to be.

- Response by frenchkiss49, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Tampa, Who Cares?

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