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A man might cheat once,this is rare but cheat again with the same girl.How do u explain this was it
Married Life / 11:41 AM - Friday November 20, 2009

A man might cheat once,this is rare but cheat again with the same girl.How do u explain this was it

a mistake or he does it on purpose..

- Asked by Female, 22-25

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Cheating once, maybe you could say it was a moment of weakness, I was drunk whatever. Whether that's an acceptable excuse debatable, but you can at least make the claim and get some folks to believe it.
But to cheat twice with the same girl is not a accident. You can't trip over the threshold and and score a direct hit twice.

- Response by falsehammer, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 26-28, Kansas City, Consulting

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sorry to burst you bubble love, bit once a cheater a;ways a cheater!

- Response by amazedbygrace, An Alternative Girl, Female, 29-35, Artist / Musician / Writer

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Cheating is a selfish act. He just didn't care, or think, about what it would do to you. He just decided that his 'craving' was what is important.

You have two choices; you leave and move on, and find someone trustworthy who really loves you. or you stay and try to work things out.
But honey, it he did it more than once, don't waste your time. A mistake only take once to make someone realise who disguting/wrong it was to do so. If it happens again... then they know they can get away with it, or just don't care if you leave.

Respect yourself. There is nothing to be understood there. IF someone repeatedly does something knowing it hurts their s/o... then they DON'T CARE about that person.

- Response by titemousse, A Sportif, Female, 26-28, Quebec, Student

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If your in a commited relationship you should not be going off with anyone eles. If he cheated again with the same women then clearly it shows he didn't think that sleeping with her the first time was a mistake and he went back for more. You don't make a mistake by cheating on someone. Thats the cheats bs for i like doing it because i get the best of everything. Once a cheat always a cheat.

- Response by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 22-25, Who Cares?

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honey, trust me on this, he defenitely does it on purpose.

- Response by catduke3, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Medical / Dental

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How would one cheat by accident?!

Of COURSE it was on purpose!

- Response by stillagoodguy1, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Celebrity

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Cheating is always a delibertate and conscious act.

- Response by clueless37, An Alternative Girl, Female, 36-45, Administrative

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I think it was on purpose both times. Cheating is a decision, not something that just "happened," like catching a cold.

- Response by wudaddy, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, 29-35, Dallas

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My ex husband did that, and he did it on purpose.


- Response by uniquelyme2, A Creative, Female, 46-55, Artist / Musician / Writer

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If hes with the same girl again, I'd say they have a connection of some sort...... Be it like, love or just they really enjoy the sex w/each other.

- Response by singledad281, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Houston, Veterinary

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