|Dating / 4:19 PM - Tuesday October 27, 2009|
My boyfriend of 4 years wants to focus on himself. What does this mean?
We have been together for a little over 4 years and now he randomly needs time for himself and space. We were a little wierd before it happened but nothing dramatic. We had a very good realationship. I am very hurt, and we hardly talk at all. He said he cares about me a lot but he wants to focus on himself and not worry about anything. He told me he see's a future but just wants to focus on him self. I just do not understand why becasue we were not in a bad place and we love eachother. Should I just give it to him, no calling, no texting? I'm just scared he will never contact me :( His own friends said they do not know whats going on and have not really seen him. I just do not know what to do, each day is hard and hurts a lot!
- Asked by Female, 26-28
Oh, I'm sorry! I would just leave him alone and not contact him. It hurts now, but it WILL get better!
he prob has doubts about your relationship. He could be realizing you two aren't as compatible now that you are older, or he has met someone else and sparks flew..so he wants to see if that will go anywhere.