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What does it mean if a man calls a woman a "ballbuster"?
Dating / 3:38 AM - Monday October 12, 2009

What does it mean if a man calls a woman a "ballbuster"?

The other day I overheard two guys talking about some girl that they thought was a real "ballbuster". I am not sure what that means can you guys enlighten me?

- Asked by Female, 36-45

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I'm not a guy, but i know what a ball buster or ball breaker is. It's a controlling woman who wears the pants and the guy so hen pecked he jumps at her every command.To the point he appears feminine, thus the term "ball buster".

- Response by dreamspinner, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Chicago

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Men think they can do what they want and get who they want and this woman set them straight and put them in their place... its a good thing. Means she has confidence and isnt afraid to show her real self

- Response by lyndseyvest94, A Life of the Party, Female, 22-25, St.Louis, Retail

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It means she's tough as man with a attitude..

- Response by oldman52, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Sydney, Retired

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It's a nice way of calling her a bitch I suppose.

I'd just call her a bitch right out and get it off my chest.

- Response by desota18, A Creative, Male, 22-25, Student

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An emasculater; a female who habitually demeans and degrades men.

- Response by workplay, A Career Man, Male, 29-35, Military

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one who never quits nagging

- Response by bigcurt, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Pittsburgh, Self-Employed

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I spoke to my exes mom today(on&off 10 yrs) and she told me that she always liked me because I'm a ball buster. I took it that I don't tolerate much and would check her son without a blink of an eye if I felt disrespected. I wouldn't back down when I knew what was right.

- Response by geministwin79, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Los Angeles

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