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What are some traits of a possessive and jealous man?
Dating / 12:03 AM - Monday October 05, 2009

What are some traits of a possessive and jealous man?


- Asked by warriormars, A Thinker, Female, 29-35

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He starts fights for no reason. He'll bitch about you hanging with your friends. He'll constantly give you the 3rd degree. He'll tell you what you can and can't do, wear, say. Things to that extreme. Usually, He'll become highly controlling. These are the men you want to stay away from... obviously.

- Response by fortminor123, An Alternative Girl, Female, 22-25

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A possessive/jealous man will:
. Tell you how to dress;
. Be overly concerned about where you are going when
socializing;
. Insist on escorting you to mundane places;
. Interfere or veto your social plans;
. Make excessive phone calls to know your whereabouts;
. Be intense about everything;
. Be unable to communicate and discuss anything with
you;
. Put you down and will do anything to make you feel
inferior;
. Have a negative outlook and poor self-esteem/lack of
confidence;
. Be dominant in domestic arrangements;
. Be aggressive and displays an unreasonable attitude to
minor details.
The above list is some of the characteristics to look for in
respect of identifying a possessive jealous man in advance.
Often he may be good-looking with plenty of charisma and
charm and oozing apparent self-confidence. At this stage of
the "love game," you will have no reason to suspect that he is
any other than the way he portrays himself. Generally, once a
possessive jealous man finds his woman, he does not believe
he can keep her. He believes that his woman will be taken
from him by another man. This is largely due to a lack of confidence,
poor self-esteem, limited or no self-respect. The
possessive jealous man does not believe that he deserves to

- Response by j3s5e, A Rebel, Male, 29-35, Los Angeles, Who Cares?

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He meets you at the door and demands to know where you were when he already knows. He listens in on your phone calls. Calls your work to make sure you are really there. Follows you around to find out where you are. Traces your mother's car because he knows you sometimes use it. Cruises the parking lot of your home and work to find your car. Questions you if another man talks to you in public. Doesn't want you around your own family and friends. Trust me it was no fun.

- Response by dreamdancer, A Creative, Female, 36-45, Houston, Other Profession

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He wants to know where you are at all times and who you were with. and dont lie to him because he can tell if your hiding something

- Response by hoteric, A Rebel, Male, 29-35, Houston, Technical

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aLL UNPLEASANT

- Response by duggers, A Guy Critical, Male, 66 or older

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