|Dating / 3:54 AM - Sunday October 04, 2009|
I am in love with my best friend's brother! What should I do?
I have been close friends with my bff for only about 6 months, but we are great friends and spend a lot of time together. When we first started hanging out heaps, and before I even knew she had a brother, she had this big idea that she wanted to set the two of us up. Anyway she introduced the two of us a little while later and surprisingly I fell for him straight away! The only problem at that stage was that he was involved with another girl and my bff didn't know about her before she tried to set us up. As far as I can tell though, things didn't work out with the other girl. So my problem is now that I spend a lot of time at her house on the weekends and he is usually there too but I'm worried that if anything were to ever happen it would affect my friendship with my bff - even though the whole thing was her idea in the first place. Another big thing is that he is relatively shy / reserved and I don't know if he feels the same way! We all went out in a group the other night though and after we'd all had a few drinks he started to become quite affectionate and was giving me hugs throughout the night. I don't want to let myself get carried away though if it is something that won't ever work out. Help!!
- Asked by Female, 26-28
My sister married her best friend's brother back in the 1960s. They are still together.