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Why do some men masturbate to their ex's pictures even if they have a new girlfriend or not?
Sex & Intimacy / 4:26 PM - Wednesday September 30, 2009

Why do some men masturbate to their ex's pictures even if they have a new girlfriend or not?

in your opinion. not like "oh i wouldn't like that" or " oh thats never happened to me". real perspectives please.Men preferrably.

- Asked by warriormars, A Thinker, Female, 29-35

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I have never done that. Why would you with all the free porn out there? My exes are in the past. Where they belong. This is a real perspective. I'd say if a man did that she dumped him and he really liked the sex.

- Response by llafsroh, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Boston, Science / Engineering

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Any man that whacks off to his ex's pic isn't over his ex - plain & simple.

- Response by wheezerman, A Mr. Married Guy, Male, Who Cares?, Who Cares?

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Any man who would do that is a wierdo with serious emotional problems. He's also not over his ex and you're not going to make him get over her. Find someone else.

- Response by An Intellectual Guy, Male, 36-45, Political / Government

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Can't say i ever have. Seems.. creepy. From m perspective... it may have hurt, and i may have still found them attractive but that doesn't seem a healthy reaction.

- Response by heavenly666, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 29-35, London, Administrative

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interesting thought....i dont ever recall rubbing one out to an ex or someone i have been with. i rarely masturbate thinking about my wife.

maybe i need to cut the porn out, make more movies of her and i fucking and see what happens

- Response by handsomedetroitguy, A Father Figure, Male, 36-45, Detroit, Political / Government

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Would you please ask this question again at a much later date? I can't give a good response because I have been married to the same woman for 40 years and don't have any ex's. The "EX's" that I do have are young children, (I was you too then), so it would not be appropriate for me to use their photos, because the only photos I have of my exs are from school books and they are just kids. I have no idea what most of them look like today. But I plan on ditching the one I have now in about 15 or 20 years, and then I can give this post an answer that it deserves.

- Response by phoenixbandit, A Guy Critical, Male, 66 or older, Columbus, Law Enforcement

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Because hes still hot for her.

- Response by newnumbersguy32, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Financial / Banking

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Who does that? I don't

He's clearly not over his ex

- Response by mantis, A Creative, Male, 18-21

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men like variety..they get bored VERY easily..especially when it comes to sex..

- Response by laxgirl, A Sportif, Female, 36-45, Baltimore, Therapist

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Men typically don't masturbate to pictures of women they know. They are more likely to masturbate to a fantasy woman, someone they've dreamed about.

- Response by betterbird, A Creative, Male, 46-55, San Francisco, Administrative

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I would say that he is one sick puppy, he is a sex addic and don't be surprised if he is unfaithful to you.

- Response by shyrich, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Seattle, Other Profession

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hello, my gf and i just broke up a few weeks ago. I do this. I'm not sick, perverted, addicted or any of the above. I'm simply in love with my ex. I cannot move on simply because I can't even get it up for anyone else. I only want her. I hope this helps

- Response by A Guy Critical, Male, 22-25

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