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What makes a man become a major control freak in his relationships???
Dating / 9:53 PM - Thursday September 24, 2009

What makes a man become a major control freak in his relationships???

What makes a man turn into a control freak in his relationship??? To the point that is can be abusive????

- Asked by debski, A Career Woman, Female, 36-45, Detroit, Science / Engineering

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Its his normal personality and he would be like that, no matter who he was with. Its caused by insecurity, a feeling of powerlessness (he feels out of control in his life, so he tries to control YOU) and/or abusiveness and the feeling of power he gets.

- Response by sunset77, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 36-45, Who Cares?

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damaged psychologically from emotional or physical abuse as a child....very insecure...probably suffers from attachment disorder

- Response by meowmeowww, A Thinker, Female, 29-35

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My lady because somewhere in the relationship she let him have total control over her and now she cant stop him and he in his little mind thinks now that he owns her to a point if she doesnt do what he says he will abuse her , thats when the =authorities are needed to atop all of this because even if she breaks up with her ,he will stalk her, sick ,immature, little, shallow minds!@! Some men are!!

- Response by ptawillis, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 56-65, Medical / Dental

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When he feels comfortable enough to expose that side of his personality. A "control freak" just doesn't happen. It is many years in the works, as is with being abusive. It just doesn't happen "one day". It is WHO he is. You just haven't seen it until now.

- Response by msadvise, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Transportation

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