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What do men in their sixties want and look for in women their own age?
Dating / 4:03 PM - Thursday September 24, 2009

What do men in their sixties want and look for in women their own age?

Update: September 24, 2009.
I'm really quite dismayed that the overall opinion seems to be that women in their sixties are over the hill,so to speak, as far as still being physically, mentally and emotionally attractive to men.Of course not all women in their sixties are still attractive- depends on what they started out with. If all they had going for them when they were young was the freshness of youth, they won't be a prize at sixty either. But don't lump all of us together under the banner- NO GOOD ANYMORE- simply because of age.Most people look at age the wrong way- they see people as going down down down to the bottom of life instead of having climbed up to a plateau toward which others are still struggling.Most women in their sixties can say,"I started out good-looking and I still have most of it left." + a lot of knowledge that you won't have until you get UP here.

- Asked by nefertiti21, A Thinker, Female, 66 or older, Kansas City, Artist / Musician / Writer

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A partner to spend their retirement with, because nobody wants to be alone, more less die alone.

- Response by guy506, A Guy Critical, Male, 46-55, Houston, Other Profession

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The same thing everyone looks for. We want an attractive person, with nice features. We want a good figure and a pleasant personality.

- Response by poolfish2, A Career Man, Male, 66 or older, Who Cares?

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Heck the same as any other man at any other age


- Response by seasons4, A Sportif, Female, 46-55, Financial / Banking

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Hair, most of their original teeth, and a pulse.

- Response by hearmenow, A Guy Critical, Male, 66 or older, Other Profession

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Hell, most of the men I know in their sixties want a woman 20 years younger.

- Response by birdland, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Who Cares?

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After they hit around 40, men don't want women their own age - they want women who are 10-20 years younger than they are. If you're in your late 50s/early 60s, the 70+ year old men are the ones who'll be interested in you.

- Response by justpassingthru, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Financial / Banking

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You need to ask - WHY MOST MEN in their 60s most DON'T want women
in their 60s at all - HA! HA!

I have dated a few men who are much older than me that places them at about 60 or me, they want 'younger women'........because they want somebody with 'a little life' and not a woman just sitting around bitching that she is old and in menopause and everything hurts and they can't do anything or go anywhere.

- Response by jpm51, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Baltimore, Administrative

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I'll let you know when I turn 60. I hope to dead by 35 if my life doesn't turn around, but knowing my luck, I will live to see that, and regret every day past 28.

- Response by A Creative, Male, 29-35, Teaching

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My guess would be someone to retire with or well off if they aren't. If well off someone young to spend their money on. lol Rosey

- Response by roseytalks, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Tampa, Who Cares?

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probably companionship if they were looking for sex they would want someone younger

- Response by bigcurt, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 56-65, Pittsburgh, Self-Employed

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