|Dating / 4:13 PM - Tuesday September 15, 2009|
I haven't had a girlfriend in over four years, haven't been on a date in almost two. Deal breaker?
I get this is sorta weird, but I haven't had a stable enough job/living situation to where I feel comfortable asking women out. I've been continuously employed and I'm coming to terms with the fact that this is how my career will probably always be. How much of an issue/turn off is it that I've had this long of a dry spell?
- Asked by A Career Man, Male, 29-35, Washington, DC, Other Profession
Not at all really. IMO, it shows you have the presence of mind to not date when you feel it's not the right time to do so. It shows you're not needy.
Ok. I think that you just have to stop for a minute (if you have a one :-)) and take a deep breath. It's ok to have a big career and a good job but you have to relax a bit when you are not working. You have to try to separate your job from your personal life if you don't want to live all your life alone. Now when your career is (more-less) stable try getting your personal life in order. There are nice girls out there who doesn't care how much money you earn but what kind of person you are. You just have to try to find them. Good luck! :-)