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Big guy, small girl, not so great sex... What can we do to make it better?
Sex & Intimacy / 11:26 PM - Monday August 31, 2009

Big guy, small girl, not so great sex... What can we do to make it better?

Ok well I'm a petite 5'1 and my guy is a large 6'2; he is just so much bigger then me. Now when it comes to sex this creates a problem, think of a great dane and a chihuahua trying to do it. We only seem to stick to two positions because when we try something else we can't really make it work out. Frankly I'm not so satisfied, in fact i don't quite enjoy it. And to make things better just because a guy is large that doesn't mean he's *cough*cough* "large". We have great times together but sex isn't one of them. What can we do to make our sex better?

- Asked by A Hip Hop Girl, Female, 22-25, Las Vegas, Retail

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- Response by dambreaker, A Father Figure, Male, 56-65, Retired

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I'm in the same situation you are only my husbands 6'3" and I'm 5' Lol we have tried everything I think the most enjoyable thing for me so far is just foreplay it's a lot easier for him to reach me and visa verse. :)

- Response by onethousandtimesaday, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 22-25, Medical / Dental

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What positions have tried? In your case, I would suggest woman on top, spoon rear entry, and many others that I can suggest later.

- Response by int24h, A Career Man, Male, 36-45, Alternative Medicine

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hah! wow thats like the same situation im in :P (apart from the fact that im not as far into the relationship as sex)

well im 6 foot 8inches.... ya i know im tall. im a freekin giant....

and this girl im close with is only something like 5 foot 2... thats almost 2 feet difference.... while we've only been going out for like 3 weeks, i really like her and her height doesnt bother me.... apart from of course when we try to kiss or hug, its usually done sitting down. while we havent had sex together yet, its crossed my mind a few times (and im sure it has for her) about how the hell we're supposed to do it.... the one thing i knwo for sure is, that while im on my kness, im still taller than her.... and also, while we are both standing,

her face come to a few inches above my crotch.... ;P
im assuming that the standing blowjob would be a new experience for us both (because she fits so perfectly.)

n e ways i know i ranted on... but you get my point ;P

- Response by A Rebel, Male, 22-25, Toronto, Student

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I am sorry but with comparisons like that "a great dane and a chihuahua" it is hard to help you. LOL! Maybe just try to be more playful and you two will end up having more fun. Good luck !! SMILE.

- Response by cinderelladreamz, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Los Angeles

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The sex is either good or it isn't. You can't change it, the chemistry is there or not, you can't fake it.

- Response by lacey07, A Life of the Party, Female, Who Cares?, Other Profession

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