|Dating / 11:54 AM - Thursday August 20, 2009|
Any suggestions a 42 year In love but afraid to commit? PS, he's never been married.
I've been dating this guy from a singles site for over 3 months. He's in the process of selling his condo to move out of New Jersey to start a new life in Florida. I know he loves me. I know ALL of his friends and have met Mom (who LOVES me). Hes very close with her and she invited me for dinner next week. PROBLEM: Hes terrified to make a commitment. Its not other woman. Im SOO confused as he says things like "when we get married" and when we get a boat. Its always "we" but he wont say, lets not see other people. When I mention it, he gets angry when I say not to be upset if I go on a date. He insists that if he met me before he planned to move he would marry me and still talks about getting me a ring (which is way to soon only dating 3 months). Why is he afraid to spend more than a night a week together. Yes the sex is off the charts but he says he can take care of himself. He doesnt need other woman. WHY IS HE SO TERRIFIED. Im tired of spending time by myself so I broke it off. Then I get a call that his mom wants to have me over for a special dinner. WHAT IS UP WITH THIS SITUATION???? He tells me how amazing I am but wont spend to much time together. He says it will just make it harder when he leaves. THEN HE ASKS ME TO COME WITH HIM. THIS IS WAY TO CONFUSING for an average woman who is not into drama. Im giving him space to see what he really wants, then on his facebook page he writes the Elvis song "Im so lonely I could die". I DONT GET IT??? HELP PLEASE!! He says everytime he gets into a relationship he gets hurt. NO KIDDING, no pain no gain. Who hasnt been hurt.
- Asked by gracecamacho, A Cool Mom, Female, 46-55, Other Profession