|Friendship / 11:07 AM - Tuesday August 18, 2009|
Needy friend! I have a friend who is kind generous and I adore her but she smothers me!
So this am I had to tell her point blank that I need some ME time, I hate that phrase but I did not know what else to say. I did not want to say "You are driving me freaking bananas" she is constantly inviting herself to things I am doing alone or with others and I include her usually I and I spend time with her and I do things with her but sometimes I want to do things alone or with my husband or another friend am I such a bad person? She is now very upset and pouty and I just do not care at the moment. SO yes I guess I am horrible and I am ok with it! And yes she has other friends, lots of them, she has a husband and 2 beautiful children but she just seems to like me best and I would be flattered if she was not so on top of me!
- Asked by taratara, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 36-45, Philadelphia, Financial / Banking
How would you feel about her if you heard she died in an accident tonight?
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I deal with them by not "allowing" them to drive me crazy like you have posted above. Is it because I don't care or love them..no. It is the fact that I know me and there has to be a balance. We are the captains of our own ship...navigate wisely. =0)