|Dating / 10:42 PM - Sunday August 16, 2009|
He will only text me not call me what should I do about this please help?
I've been seeing him for 2 months and we haven't had sex so that shouldn't be a factor. Everything is been good except he doesn't call anymore like he would before. I know that before it was probably to get me more into him. He mostly texts alot but sometimes is nice to hear his voice. Now he doesn't call me and I call him he doesn't pick up. So I text him telling him why he doesn't pick up and he says he will call me back and doesn't but texts back. I really don't like to tell him to call me because I don't feel I need to he should just want to do it. I did tellthough to call me before but just like twice. I don't know if it has anything to do with him losing interest because he texts me even when he lets say is out with friends somewhere. The only time he calls me is if he is coming to pick me up so we can hangout. How do I get him to call me more instead of just texting. The day before yesterday for example I called him and he said he would call me back and he didn't call just text I didn't answer back. Last night he text and I didn't answer back as well it's been this way for 3days. The last text he sent today was that "I have forgotten about him". When I haven't I just want him to call is that so much to ask. I don't mind the text messaging I don't want him to get comftarble where he feels he doesn't have to put the effort into calling me so it could be more personal.
- Asked by An Alternative Girl, Female, 26-28
Send him a text that says: This is lame as hell, I'm dumping and I doubt you care, sorry you had issues talking on the real phone bye."
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Sometimes men just dont know what we women wants, they dont understand what is going on in our mind. So, if he doesnt at all sounds like a clear cut disinterest in you, why dont you try to cultivate some ways of getting along with each other if he is worth ur effort. Its only 2 months into the dating and this is suppose to be the time when both of u is exploring each other. If u deprive him of the rights to get to know u better of ur likings, preference and behaviour... how is he going to correct his mistakes and get along? Sometimes, u need to be straightforward, be subtle or hinting if u dont feel comfortable with being so blunt.