Thank you for your many years of support. We want to share the news with you that after much consideration, will cease operations in its present format on October 15th. We appreciate your meaningful contributions over the years.
Back to Home

Active Questions

What does it mean when a woman tells you she wants to take care of you?
Dating / 1:14 PM - Wednesday July 29, 2009

What does it mean when a woman tells you she wants to take care of you?

I have several ideas, but don't want to necessarily read anything into it.

- Asked by Male, 36-45

Read more about the Rating System

I once told that to my fiance. What I meant by it was that I wanted to keep him happy.

- Response by trueseeker82, A Creative, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?

Rating Received:

I would think it means she wants to marry you.

- Response by almostcoolmom4, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, New York, Other Profession

Rating Received:

Community Rating: Community Star

When I feel like I want to take care of something; I want to mother it, nurture, it, care for all of its needs, kind of like a mother takes care of her child, she sees to it or should see to it that all of the child's physical, emotional and spiritual needs are met. When I say I want to take care of a man I mean that I want to make him dinner, pack his lunch, remember the things that he forgets, fix his tie and sew up holes in his clothes or just notice if something he has needs replacing or repairing and see that it gets done without being asked, nursing him and spoon feeding him when he's sick, be there to show him love and support; it's more emotional than physical. It just means that I want to make sure that he feels safe, warm, comforted and secure. That's basically what that means in a nutshell.

- Response by vike17, A Thinker, Female, 26-28, Dallas, Therapist

Rating Received:

if she's older then you, it means she wants to be your cougar, and make you her boy toy.

- Response by pizzatroll, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Science / Engineering

Rating Received:

If your not married yet, she wants to...... If your married now and she says this, watch for the knife in the back!!!!! :)

- Response by loseing, A Guy Critical, Male, Who Cares?, Who Cares?

Rating Received:

I dunno? but, It's gotta be an adventure either way you run it!

- Response by geester, A Creative, Male, 56-65, Celebrity

Rating Received:

Voice inflection might be important on this one. If she is wanting to mother you, just say "no thanks". If she has a growl in her voice and she's reaching for your manhood, leave her alone and let her take charge.

- Response by poolfish2, A Career Man, Male, 66 or older, Who Cares?

Rating Received:

uummm, that you'll be sleepin' with the fishes?

- Response by isotope, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Science / Engineering

Rating Received:

You really need to ask her what her meaning is. You can take that several ways.

- Response by barbb, An Alternative Girl, Female, Who Cares?, Other Profession

Rating Received:

it depends on who said this...and allot of other factors...

but basically she is saying she loves you....I THINK.

- Response by sirkermittsg, A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45, Dallas, Transportation

Rating Received:

I'm gonna take a wild guess and say that she wants you to play the role of her husband and look after her.Be there when she needs someone to talk to, help her out and things like that.

- Response by listentome27, A Thinker, Female, 22-25, Dallas

Rating Received: