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How can I get my boyfriend to flirt with me?
Dating / 5:35 PM - Thursday July 23, 2009

How can I get my boyfriend to flirt with me?

He says he doesnt want to flirt or do anything with me cuz it would make him feel like he's treating me like all the other girls he used to fool around with how can I help him flirt/mess around with me?

- Asked by A Trendsetter, Female, 22-25, Artist / Musician / Writer

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He needs some schooling.Tell him it does'nt mean your like the rest.

- Response by frenchkiss49, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Tampa, Who Cares?

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did he flirt with you in the beginning, if not maybe he's not the flirty kind.,,,, why do you need it so bad

- Response by sexygrandma, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Retired

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Usually, just flirting with him or busting a guy's chops will get a guy to reciprocate. Try showing him you're a playful person, and he should want to play along.

If that doesn't work, then when you're out with him in public, try flirting with all the other guys. If he gets jealous and they're flirting back, tell him you like the attention. He might start messing with you by then.

- Response by Luna0330, A Hippie Chick, Female, 29-35, Consulting

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Something tells me you aren't even close to 18.

Please don't have sex until you are.

No normal woman has to beg her man to flirt with her or to fool around with her until after she's married.

Then it becomes completely normal.

- Response by llafsroh, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Boston, Science / Engineering

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