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2 years with no contact, he contacts me.
Dating / 11:48 PM - Thursday July 09, 2009

2 years with no contact, he contacts me.

I hurt a man that I was dating 2 years ago. He did not talk to me again after that. He has always known how to find me as we have many mutual friends and this is a small town.

Why after 2 years did he call me, with a blocked # and tell me how hurt he was. He told me he understood why I did what I did but was still upset all that time and could not talk about it so he never contatced me. As we were talking he got a call and asked if he could call me back. So now I'm waiting on him to call again since he blocked his number. What do you think he wants? Why bring up the past 2 years later?

Update: July 10, 2009.
Thanks to everyone that responded! He called back early this morning. He wanted to get some things off his chest. He wants to try again and see where things go. :)

- Asked by onlyme52402, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Technical

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Either he still has feelings for you, or he cannot move on without letting you know how hurt he was and perhaps getting an explaination for it all.
Women aren't the only ones who are sensitive.



- Response by A Married Girl, Female, 46-55, Artist / Musician / Writer

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sometimes it takes that long to process...and he still wants to address it....

- Response by meowmeowww, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, San Francisco, Technical

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I hate to categorize,however, something is hinting that this man is an Aquarius?
In his heart he still feels a connection to you, even though you hurt him. In a sense he was rejected and after 2 years is still hashing it over in his mind...he wants to know why?
Don't wait around for him to call you back, as he may never call again. If he does...ask him why he is calling you now?
Give him a straight answer as to why you did what you did.



- Response by orionstealth, A Creative, Female, 46-55, Artist / Musician / Writer

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He thinks you about all the time and to be honest, I think he is calling you to see if there is still a spark there.

- Response by allroundguy, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 46-55, Vancouver, Other Profession

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maybe he's looking for closure....

- Response by kungfudewd, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 29-35, Financial / Banking

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Did he run out of ice cream?




- Response by wendyshoefitz123, A Player, Female, Who Cares?

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1) He is fishing
2) He seeks closure

- Response by clueless37, An Alternative Girl, Female, 36-45, Administrative

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WHEN did he call you? (How long ago? yesterday, last week, last month, an hour ago?) In other words, how looooooong have you been waiting for this second call???? Perhaps he sobered up in the interim, perhaps his current GF came over. My best guess is that he came to his senses and is very happy right about now that he blocked his #. IF you are really really interested AND you WANT him back in your life then perhaps you should contact HIM and ask..... IJS

- Response by undercoverguy, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Who Cares?

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Hi,sorry i couldnt get back sooner,ya its a question,you said you ended it ? maybe this guy feels,like it was something which could have been avoided,if time could fix things,or maaybe it could be because,this guy see,s things diffrent and wants another chance,hope things work out for you.

- Response by walt3289, A Guy Critical, Male, 29-35, Managerial

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