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Whats the nicest way to tell someone you cant or dont want to hang out with them anymore
Friendship / 3:45 PM - Monday June 29, 2009

whats the nicest way to tell someone you cant or dont want to hang out with them anymore

why?> they stress you out are demanding needy and takers

- Asked by A Sportif, Female, 29-35

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"No, thank you."

"Sorry, I already have plans."

"Can't make it."


"I'm already busy."

"Work is crazy right now."

"My new volunteering project takes up every minute of my free time."

"No, thank you."

"Can't make it. Sorry."

Usually after you've gone through all of those -- the needy person will move on and find some one else to bother.

- Response by A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Managerial

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I think you have to be honest and tell them you find them too stressful with their neediness. To continue to lie or avoid them doesn't work...perhaps they will get the message and decide to change their ways. Rosey

- Response by roseytalks, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Tampa, Who Cares?

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Just say you're busy & can't make it, & after a few turn-downs like that, they will stop asking, guaranteed. They will soon find a new victim to vampirize!

- Response by cressida1, A Creative, Female, 46-55, Consulting

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I believe Hallmark makes a card for this. It gies something like, "Roses are red, violets are blue. You get on my nerves so F*CK OFF!"

- Response by clueless37, An Alternative Girl, Female, 46-55, Celebrity

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Girl...why did you post anonymous? lol....just kidding...

I say you just tell it like it is..speak the truth...nothing ever goes wrong when you tell the truth ;)

- Response by divatoonami, A Trendsetter, Female, 36-45, Administrative

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the truth works!

- Response by maniacalme, A Thinker, Female, 56-65, Executive

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