Active Questions
| Dating / 12:37 AM - Saturday June 27, 2009 |
My ex wont stop calling/IMing me. He is too dependent.I don't want to talk to him and I really hate not answering phone calls/IMs. I feel bad for the poor guy but he's a little manipulative. He's weak emotionally and really dependent. I can't have that right now. I'm too young and too inexperienced to take care of someone else in addition to myself. When I DO answer the phone, we end up staying on there for at least an hour and it is SO FRUSTRATING!! How do I DEAL WITH THIS??! It's getting very frustrating. Should I give him some closure? Would that help?
- Asked by mlcoast2, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 18-21 |
|
|
Change your number and do not give it out to anyone that might give it to him. Do not answer his phone calls. Simple as that.
- Response by william45, A Career Man, Male, 46-55, Chicago, Teaching
Rating Received: |
|
|
My ex called me today, I missed the call but it was odd. He is a fisherman in Alaska now. I hope he doesn't come back here. *crosses fingers*
- Response by ashmcawesome, A Life of the Party, Female, 22-25
Rating Received: |
|
|
How can he be dependent on you if you have told him you don't want him? Because if he calls you and you oblige him in conversation for a whole hour, independence from you is not what you're telling him.
- Response by thedaimler2006, A Hip Hop Girl, Female, 46-55, Atlanta, Artist / Musician / Writer
Rating Received: |
|
|
You are leading him on by answering the phone or IM's. Stop answering after you tell him not to call any more and stick to it.
- Response by barbb, A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?
Rating Received: |
|
|
if you don't want to keep talking to him, it's important that you do give him closure. He obviously doesn't understand that its completely over between you two.
- Response by mindamarie1, An Alternative Girl, Female, 18-21
Rating Received: |
|
|
You need to tell him that you're trying to start a new chapter in your life and that you need some time to just be alone. And, don't enable it if you don't like it.
- Response by lollipop85, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 18-21, Atlanta, Student
Rating Received: |
|
|
Do not answer his calls. Do not answer his IMs. Block his access if you have to. He's only prolonging your pain and his.
- Response by myrtletyrtle, A Cool Mom, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?
Rating Received: |
|
|
Block his screenname.set your privacy settings so that only people who you are friends wih can contact you (This should be under privacy settings)
- Response by A Sweet Sarah, Female, 22-25, Student
Rating Received: |
|
|
Yes we all need closure to end a relationship. That maybe want you need to do by telling him you have moved on and he needs to move on to.
- Response by lifestyle, A Father Figure, Male, 56-65, Houston
Rating Received: |
|
|
I advise you to change your number, maybe then he will get the hint. Good luck!!
- Response by jae1983, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 26-28, Administrative
Rating Received: |
