It varies in every guy of course but the first thing I look at is the eyes. I am an eye guy and I have to say its hit or quit for me. After all, when you are looking into your lover's eyes you should see their heart. After that its humor...I love a woman with a great sense of humor. If you have those two then as long as we hit it off everywhere else, its a good deal.
As far as question two, thats all personality to me. I've met plenty of very attractive women who are either really dumb and ditsy or they have a simple personality. Those who I can see myself with in a relationship versus those who I can just see myself being friends with.
I feel bad for saying this but obesity is the most unattractive quality for me. I know there are some great obese women out there, but its just not for me.
- Response by panthersfan24
, A Hip Hop Guy, Male, 22-25, San Diego, Other Profession