|Dating / 4:26 AM - Sunday June 14, 2009|
why am i attracted to losers
So ever since i got out of high school and started college in the city (akron)ive found myself trying to get with these guys that are really not good for me. Ya know the drug dealing...been in and out of jail...broke type. i dunno why i am attracted to these types of men? i guesss i really like the "badass" type/look...you know the ones with the tattoos and all that. Im only 21. Ill usually try and find guys between like 25-35 but, usually these guys are no good and dont treat me the right way. why the hell do i do this to myself?? I know the guys that i meet will never make good boyfriends... it just seems like if a guy doesnt fit into my little badass appeal then i dont even consider him. i feel bad. and its been happening alot latley. is this a phase or something? this one dude im currently hooking up with is 32 and hes been in and out of jail a total of like 8yrs since 18 years old and hes got like 15 felonies, tattoos all over all that lol. but im super attracted to him and like him alot....but hell never be relationship material....some advice?
- Asked by nofxroxx34, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 26-28
I suspect you don't have a healthy self esteem. You don't think you deserve any better, possibly? Maybe you are still rebelling against bad parenting. Even you Avatar pic screams you want a nasty boy. So, that is who you will attract.
You are attracted to losers because you have very low self-esteem.