What I see you saying is that you want to touch him with his senses that his mind cannot control, but then you stand aside and watch him struggle with the thunder in his soul. (It is from the song; A Bitter Man.
The very best tease is physical contact and whispered fantasies. Over and over and over and over......ad infinitum.
Each a little stronger and a little more intimate until you are almost there yourself.
PS: Another way is similar to the compendium of the Arabian Nights: If you are a good story teller, tell him raunchy stories of seduction and conquest...or simply read them to him. You might look at 'literotica' for an on line example.
- Response by rekkonball
, A Guy Critical, Male, 66 or older, Retired