|Dating / 3:31 AM - Thursday May 28, 2009|
My boyfriend broke up with me, and i want him back how?
my boyfriend broke up after being together for 1,5 years. we never cheated on eachother. and we still love eachother. we make eachother very happy. and i dont know what to do, i really miss him even tho its been only 4 days. it feels like 4 years. he said its not about me but about how he feels in life at this moment. he sais he needs to sort things out, and that he will come back to me when hes happy again. he has much problems, and stress. he has exams next week. and maybe everything is getting too much for him. but i always gave him his space. and now the thing is. he has fangirls. and that must sound weird, but on his school there are allot of unattractive girls who keep hanging, and hugging him. he tries to keep em away. is there any chance i can make him come back to me sooner? hes my world. and i just need him. he was even talking about taking me to italy. on the day after he broke up. and we were kissing and hugging. like nothing changed. i really need him back, please help me. i dont know what to do.
- Asked by stelladark, An Alternative Girl, Female, 18-21, Artist / Musician / Writer
Maybe after school is over and summer vacation begins, you and him will have plenty of time to get back together and get to know each other a bit better and mature some. Sounds like both of you need to grow up some....
When a person is stressed out he doesn't break up, sweetie, he asks you to be patient and understanding for time being. What he pulled is BS, and I agree with others that he wants to have you on the string and have his "single" life on the side too. My ex tried to do the exact thing even though he was 42 y.o. He broke up with me by saying that he lost something inside and he needs to find that "person" again. However, even now he keeps e-mailing, sending gifts on special occassions and saying he still loves me and misses me. What a liar! If I had waited for him I'd have lost 2-3 years. By the way, 3 months after he broke up he called and told me he was thinking of getting married and I said "good luck, darling!"... he never married... lol