Ladies need to vent! My so called BF turned 60 today. Since Iv'e known him, he has always been the

type of Man that doesn't celebrate his B-day. Prefers to be alone on all Holidays-odd to each his own. He has been with me & my children on Christmas Eve & a few birthdays. Always celebrates mine with me, gifts dinner etc. I made him a cake & made up a gift basket of simple stuff such as a memory photalbum with pics of us & me. He has not responded. I feel hurt, how long would you keep the cake & gift? I feel like going to his house & throwing it all on his lawn right now! But, I won't have more class than that. I am going to play Golf instead something we both enjoy together. Has anyone ever been in love with someone who has mental problems? My rose colored glasses are slowing fading. This is a man that treats me like a Queen for months, then BOOM something doesn't go his way & he goes into cavemnan mode & ignores me! Also does this to his best friend. What do you call a person with these characterisics? How do you break away from someone you love?