|Dating / 3:10 AM - Tuesday May 26, 2009|
I dont understand why He cant fall in love with me.
I have been with this guy on and off for 1 year and 6 months. The first time we broke up was because he said his feelings werent growing into love and he didnt want to hurt me. Then 2 months later he comes back to me and says that this time its for real. That this time he is in it for the long run. Now 7 months later i notice a change in him and finally get him to tell me whats going on. He tells me he likes me a lot but like before he cant seem to fall in love with me. That he doesnt understand why his feelings cant grow after such a long time of being with me. He says that i am everything he wants and he just doesnt get why his feelings dont grow. He is willing to stay with me and keep trying since now i know whats going on. He tells me "lets see what happens". Im just getting scared that its just a matter of time until he breaks my heart.
- Asked by Female, 29-35
i'm sorry for what you are going through...but if someone doesn't love you back theres no point in holding on to this man...for your own good let him go find the one he needs and you inturn make yourself available for a man that will love you.
Love doesn't happen by keep trying! One day love will happen to him with someones else and he will leave you suddenly and broke. Leave today. You are not a good match or he cannot love. don't hurt yourself.