Why do some men HATE giving oral sex?!?! Help!!!

it comes down to the fact your present lover is a VERY SELFISH lover. giving oral is all about GIVING pleasure. vaginal sex is both giving and recieving and receiving oral is all about receiving pleasure. so, for a man (or woman) to refuse to give oral (but they readily accept oral and enjoy vaginal) proves they are selfishi lovers.

how to fix it. fix their self centerness and you fix their oral issues.

personally i LOVE to give my girl oral. just seeing her enjoying it gives me a thrill. i bring her to multiple orgasms and it just it the best feeling in the world. i look up as i'm performing it, and see her grabbing the sheets, undulating in extacy, and quivering in orgasmic pleasure. and you are right, a woman that keeps herself clean and trimmed down there is SEXY as hell. and she returns the favor not only orally but in the sack. i've NEVER met a better lover then my fiancee.

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Given you age bracket you need to know that alot of youngings who have never given oral sex claim to not like it. They just don't know what the hell to do and haven't worked up the courage to take the initial plunge for fear they will be proven inept. And then there's the bone heads who must have bone heads for fathers who just think sex is about servicing THEM. These men also are generally unwilling to give adequate foreplay of any kind and move on to intercourse before you are ready and demand their standard blow job with nary a thought about anything even remotely similar.
If you get a guy who says he doesn't or won't you need to pin him down as to why, and WTF and then show him the door.

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Someone here said if they enjoy receiving, then they should return the favor. I get oral from my husband about once every 18 to 24 months. Sometimes it goes longer in between. The last time he presented it as "doing me a favor" it took every inch of strength for me to not kick him in the face. You wanna do me a favor....clean out the gutters & cut the lawn.
Unless the man is doing it because he wants to & enjoys seeing you in sheer bliss, then it's like saying I'll slide down that razor blade railing into a vat of rubbing alcohol (because oral probably seems more torturous to them). Who the hell wants sex much less oral when your partner has that attitude?

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You could as easily ask "Why do some women HATE giving oral sex?!?!" Some people are just turned of by it. If that is no the case there could be a lot of other reasons. Some men hate fur, or shaved. In some cases, very much not saying that this is the case as I know how not to get clawed to death, the woman will be unaware that she has a slight yeast problem going on and it really grosses some guys out as we have been taught to run when it doesn't smell right. There area few cases where some guys prefer to have their own given back to them (called snowballing). Lots of reasons could be the case. Maybe they only want to squeeze one off and are not interested in any real intimacy. I cant speak from personal experience; however, I have a few guy family members who get around A LOT so I end up hearing the BS they talk about and the stuff they shouldnt be sharing. Just dont take it to heart, make sure to keep your girl clean and pretty and most guys will practically dive into it. You are probably on a streak of bad luck is all. Wouldnt know since I am a virgin still at 28. Good Luck

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SOME people hate cotton candy.

...some people are just weird.

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