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What can make a person be so angry all the time?
Friendship / 10:08 AM - Tuesday May 19, 2009

What can make a person be so angry all the time?

I mean not a day goes by that they are not angry about something?


Can a person like this have any happiness?

- Asked by mallowcup, A Thinker, Female, 36-45, Self-Employed

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I'm sure they can be happy... but they need to first come to a self realization that going into every situation in life...you can't change or expect to change anyone but yourself..

you can have faith and hope but you can't expect..

that any expectation is a forced view of what you want from others and life

you get angry and disappointed when you're expectations aren't satisfied or met...

when you don't force your expectations...or have any expectations only hope and faith, then you can't get disappointed or angry....

..pretty sad when you think about it.....life is too short and nothing is worth it...

Most of the time an angry person will be in complete denial, will blame others for their disposition, can't take responsibility for the choices they've made, and is a perfectionist, they feel that they and others have fallen short and can't accept less than perfection....probably passed genetically ...good therapy would be a suggestion as well...

- Response by sushihoney, A Cool Mom, Female, 36-45, Las Vegas, Other Profession

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Judging by my ex-husband's behavior, some people are just born miserable and live to make everyone else that way.

- Response by rexy67, A Sweet Sarah, Female, 46-55, Who Cares?

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sure u can.... u just haveto learn to not sweat the small stuff and things u can't change or have no control of. don't let people get to u...

- Response by phenomenal1woman, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Chicago

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When a person is angry all the time it indicates that he/she is very unhappy and unfulfilled. Perhaps this person has had dreams shattered by others or cannot get their life into gear. Try to find out what provoked this constant anger and attempt to help this person get a grip on life to be a better person. This constant anger will eventually manifest itself into an illness so it is imperative to help this person if you are able.

- Response by A Thinker, Female, Who Cares?, Teaching

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The answer is OCD. There is a certain type of OCD that makes a person incapable of "moving on" with their thought process. So when something just sets them off it is very difficult for that person to stop obsessing over it and calm down.

- Response by castle5, A Guy Critical, Male, 29-35, Chicago, Who Cares?

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They are a wretched mass of flesh, and makes everybody around them miserable...I guess they are 'wired' that way, I doubt you'll ever see this type change...IMO

- Response by billpayer, A Cool Mom, Female, 29-35, Who Cares?

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Maybe being angry makes them happy?

- Response by xerxes, An Intellectual Guy, Male, 46-55, Washington, DC, Lawyer

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Discontent in their life....

- Response by divatoonami, A Trendsetter, Female, 36-45, Administrative

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What can make a person be so angry all the time?
If they felt they have been unlucky in life, treated unfairly, or unloved.

Can a person like this have any happiness?
Yes. Being angry makes them happy.

- Response by germansquad, A Guy Critical, Male, 18-21, Therapist

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There is love & there is fear. Nothing more. Happy, loving thoughts & actions come from love. Mean, hateful, angry actions come from fear. This person fears something (no matter what it is) & this is how they are expressing it. You cannot change someone. They have to realize their fear, own it, & decide to change themselves.

- Response by blondie1955, Female, 56-65, Administrative

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Lack of feeling one has control of ones life.

- Response by cubbiegal, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Chicago, Administrative

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They have to find understanding about themselves and their own feelings and actions before they can start being less angry about things and poepole.When you understand and accept yourself you tend to be happier and you dont get angry so often anymore.

- Response by merial, A Thinker, Female, 46-55, Other Profession

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there may be some serious depression going on inside
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- Response by brifon16, An Alternative Girl, Female, 22-25, Los Angeles, Student

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